Quality varies a lot between ABA providers, and most families don't have a clear way to tell the difference before they're already in it. You don't need a clinical background to ask good questions — you just need to know which ones tend to reveal the most.
Questions about credentials and supervision
- Who is the BCBA overseeing my child's program, and how often do they actually see my child directly — not just review notes?
- What's the ratio of RBTs (the staff doing direct sessions) to supervising BCBAs?
- How much ongoing training do RBTs receive after they're hired?
Questions about the actual approach
- How will you involve our family in the goals, not just the at-home homework?
- What's your philosophy on using aversive procedures, and under what circumstances, if any, would they come up?
- How do you decide when a goal is "done" and what happens next?
- Can you show me what data collection actually looks like — not just describe it?
Questions about fit
- How do sessions get adjusted on a hard day, or when something clearly isn't working?
- What does communication between sessions look like — are we hearing from you only at formal reviews, or more often?
- How do you handle goals around things like self-advocacy and autonomy as my child gets older, not just compliance in the moment?
Answers that should make you pause
- Vague or defensive responses to "can I see the data."
- No clear answer about who is actually supervising versus who you were told would supervise.
- A philosophy that treats all behavior reduction as the goal, with little discussion of building skills or honoring communication.
- Reluctance to involve you in setting goals, or to explain the reasoning behind a given target.
None of these alone is automatically disqualifying — providers vary, and a single rough answer in an intake call isn't the whole picture. But a pattern of vague or defensive answers across several of these is worth taking seriously.
Already mid-way into a program and not sure it's the right fit? Sometimes it helps to talk it through with someone outside the relationship.
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